RobDrifter

So I guess chronological order for the things I want to talk about would make most sense. So Toby and I are... well its complicated. We still like each other but we kind of realized that last time we dated we kind of went from acquaintances to dating without any real middle ground. so we are trying to just be friends for right now until we feel like we have gotten to know each other better and then go on with dating. I guess I am okay with that but considering what we were and what our end goal is it makes just being friends hard. Before I went on my trip she came over for dinner one night. it made going on the trip hard because originally s

Alright. I know I said i would avoid posting things about the divorce ect. On here but I had a thought. Katharin I am assuming you are reading this so here go nothing. Lets get counseling. I know I said I don't want you back anymore and I am standing by that. Toby and I reconnected last week and while we are taking things slow I am really happy right now. So why should we get counseling? Well here is the thing, we both think we are right on this, so what do we have to lose? I would say you need to go to counseling but I doubt you are, have, or will without being talked into it. At first i thought I would offer to pay for you to go to counse

I have had that A day to Remember song stuck in my head all week. Kind of fits. This week was amusing. So on Thursday I had this plan to give the girl from the gas station my number. She want there. You know who was though? Toby. She waved and smiled. We broke up on good terms so I waved back, but my heart sank. I miss her. Couple hours later at work I checked my Facebook email. She messaged me. She said she has been missing me and wants to give it another shot. So tonight she is coming over for dinner and we will talk things over. I'm excited, but I am going to lay down one rule. We need to take it slow. We tried last time but really the o